valid xhtml and embeding video.

Hello,

I have a question, I was doing a site and I am doing it in valid xhtml, but the code that comes from the video players is not valid. I do usually valid websites, but this one I have not been able to make it validate. Please help me.

I did this, but does not show!

Code:
<object type="application/x-shockwave-flash" style="width:425px;height:350px" data="http://www.messianicjewishvideo.com/player/player.swf?id=11929863091940213378" />
<param name="movie" value="http://www.messianicjewishvideo.com/player/player.swf" />
<param name="image" value="http://www.messianicjewishvideo.com/thumb/117.jpg" />
<param name="logo" value="http://www.messianicjewishvideo.com/templates/images/watermark.gif" />
<param name="controller" value="true" />
<param name="autoplay" value="true" />
</object>
What am I doing wrong? Please help me. :(