i found a decent one that, if someone would like to figure out how to plug it in, it is similar to paypal,

i have been using paypal for many years, but now to find out they do not accept adult sites, they did when i first started using it,

anyway the name of it is alertpay, it can be found at http://alertpay.com

i sighned up with them and have the Merchant Integration Guide, if someone would like to take a look at it.

thanks
harvey