Oh, that's "dudette" (that's ok, I know my handle doesn't denote gender so most ppl assume I'm a guy--which is good for keeping creeps off my back).

OK, I'll work on your suggestions. I didn't want to be TOO much like youtube for obvious reasons which is why I left the hover, images, borders and and background colors as they were (I actually liked the contrast), but if you want everything white and the borders to match and with no rollover effects, I can do that. Give me a couple days.