Quote Originally Posted by bplex
However, most users (especially those running deds and VPSs that have panels) will not be able to fully utilize lighttpd as their main and only web server. That's mainly the reason why I'm looking into RTMP.
If you have two or more IP's on server, you can use on for apache and one for lighttpd, you just need to specify which ip's to be used for apache and for lighttpd.

Listen in apache and server.bind in lighttpd will do it.